FAQ

  • What is Rainbow Roots?

    Rainbow Roots an educational and supportive resource for parents who want to protect LGBTQ kids on an emotional, relational, and family system level. It's a source for parents who want to learn and grow without having to be “perfect” allies.

  • Why was Rainbow Roots created?

    Rainbow Roots exists because I’m a cishet woman raising two LGBTQ children. I couldn’t find a space built specifically for straight, supportive, or curious parents navigating this journey with honesty, warmth, accessibility, and a little humor. So I built it myself.

  • Are you part of the LGBTQ+ Community?

    No. I’m an ally parent. My work comes from lived experiences parenting queer kids and choosing to learn openly alongside them.

  • Can straight people advocate for LGBTQ youth?

    Straight people should never replace LGBTQ voices, but parents and allies can absolutely play a critical role in modeling protection and safety, especially for other parents who are still learning.

  • Are kids being influenced into become queer?

    No. Identity isn’t taught or transferred. What changes is whether kids feel safe enough to express who they already are.

  • Is this just a phase?

    Some kids explore identity, but LGBTQ identities are not phases. What harms children isn't identity; it’s lack of safety and support.

  • Should kids be "making these decisions"?

    Kids aren’t making adult decisions, they’re telling the truth about their experiences. What they need is belief, presence, and protection.

  • Is supporting LGBTQ youth dangerous?

    No. Research consistently shows that a supportive family is protective; reducing depression, anxiety, and suicide risk significantly.

  • What about sports or bathrooms?

    Our focus is child protection, not political debate. Supervision and accountability create safety, not exclusion.

  • What if parents don't know what to do yet?

    You don’t have to have all the answers. Safety comes from staying connected and willing to learn.

  • What if I use the wrong words?

    Repair and support matter more than having the right words. Your child needs effort, curiosity, and emotional safety. Not perfect language.

  • Is curiosity enough?

    Curiosity is where safety begins.

  • Why focus on neurodivergent children too?

    Many LGBTQ kids are also neurodivergent. Their safety requires honoring both their identity and nervous system needs.

  • What does "ND Inclusion" mean?

    It means meeting children where they are instead of punishing how they process or communicate.

  • What about faith conflicts?

    Faith and LGBTQ identity do not need to be enemies. Love doesn’t require abandoning faith. It requires letting compassion lead.

  • Does Rainbow Roots oppose faith?

    No. Rainbow Roots respects faith traditions that center love, dignity, and belonging. Harm happens when belief is used to withdraw care from children.

  • Is Rainbow Roots a political organization?

    No. This work is parental, not political. Our mission is child safety and family support.

  • Are you telling parents how to parent?

    No. We provide tools and guidance to parents.

  • How can I help?

    Support queer families locally, stay open to learning, and protect kids publicly and privately.